Our Story: From Ashes, We Built Armor
We don’t do healing quietly.
Ashes & Armor was born out of fire—real, unforgiving fire.
The kind that burns through the version of you that stayed silent too long.
The kind that forces you to choose: shrink or rise.
This brand? It’s for the ones who chose to rise.
We make clothing that tells the truth.
About pain. About resilience. About what it really looks like to rebuild yourself after trauma, betrayal, breakdowns, or just life doing what it does best—wrecking your plans.
We don’t do fluff.
We don’t do toxic positivity.
We do grit. Growth. Comebacks.
Who we are.
My name is Ashley, and this brand was built from my own ashes.
I’ve survived narcissistic abuse.
I’ve parented through trauma.
I’ve stared down the messiest parts of myself and decided they don’t make me unlovable—they make me a f*cking warrior.
Ashes & Armor is for every soul still fighting to feel worthy.
Every mom reparenting herself while raising her kids.
Every human learning to feel safe in their body again.
You’re not broken.
You’re battle-tested.
And you deserve to wear something that reflects your fight.
What we stand for.
🛡️ Clothing as armor
🔥 Quotes that hit like a punch and heal like a hug
💬 Designs that speak what you were never allowed to say
⚡ A community that doesn’t flinch at the hard stuff
Every piece we drop—every shirt, hoodie, tank, or accessory—is made to remind you of your strength, to speak what your scars survived, and to give you something to wear when you don’t have the words.
And we’re not just here to look good—we’re here to do good.
A percentage of every single sale goes directly to supporting women and children impacted by domestic violence. That means emergency shelter, trauma counseling, safe housing, legal advocacy, and so much more. Because healing shouldn’t be a privilege—it should be a right.
This is more than a brand.
It’s a f*cking movement.
Welcome to Ashes & Armor.
Put your healing on.
Let the world see your strength.
And never—never—shrink again.